Wednesday, October 31, 2007

The Reading List

There is a cycle around hobbies that repeats itself every so often and it goes like this...

Husband discovers something that he is interested in. Husband searches all over the internet gathering information about his new interest. He reads articles, he reads blogs, he listens to podcasts, he finds out about local meet-ups, and then he orders books and then he orders equipment and more stuff. After a while, (length of time is really not consistent) husband discovers a new interest and the cycle repeats.

We have been through this cycle for kayaking, biking, baking, backpacking gear, and most recently (and still going) is photography. (I know I'm missing something here... perhaps husband will comment and let me know)

I fully admit that I do benefit from all of his time spent researching and reading and learning and practicing. Yes, I enjoy the fact that my husband can fix my bike when it acts moody, that he has all of the knowledge and all of the necessary tools to do any repair. And yes, I love that he knows how to grind his own wheat berries into flour and then bake bread and can make yogurt in the yogurt machine that sits in the back of our hardest to reach cabinet. I also love that he can teach me how to have more control over how my camera captures my photographs and I also love what he can do with photographs once they are in his computer. I love that my backpack only weighs 25 pounds because of the time he spent with careful gear selection.

For a long, long time, I had been complaining (in envy) that I didn't have time for hobbies. Why did husband have time to play while wife did not? Why did husband have the opportunity to learn all these new things when wife was stuck putting up with teenagers? Teaching high school math in East Oakland just took so much time and energy. Especially the emotional energy to deal with students who don't know how to handle all of the drama that is going on in their lives. I would come home from a day at work and not want to think or do anything for the rest of the evening.

But all that is changing. It was about 1.5 years ago that I made a commitment to myself to attend a yoga class once a week. And now I'm hooked. I spend time researching on the internet, I go to classes, I read blogs, I purchased a yoga mat, and now I have purchased books. Lots of books.

Here is my current reading list...plus there are three more in the mail... and a few more that I'm thinking about getting...


Off Topic: Here is a sneak peak for Tim & Anna about a surprise that will come in the next few weeks...

4 comments:

Laurie said...

What is it with husbands and excessive Internet research? Thankfully, Mitch's intense interests have been limited to the biking world, yet he's recently branched off into road biking, too.

And look at all those books! I hope you enjoy pouring through all of them!

LaurieK said...

Ummm, he gets that annoying habit (excessive research, needing to buy ALL of the supplies necessary to execute the hobby, and most annoyingly, moving on to the "next" project/hobby) from his mother. She is the same way and has probably annoyed her husband for YEARS with this trait. Glad to see you joining in! LOL - yoga is a great hobby. I am just starting and I look forward to some tips from you when we visit. :-)

Grant Kinney said...

Love,

I'm so glad that you've given yourself time and permission to pursue something you love doing.

G

PastSelf said...

See, and I'm envious of his ability to throw himself so fully into everything. I'd like to benefit from that same knowledge, but I lack the requisite self-discipline or fire to actually make it happen. So I wish I knew all that stuff, but then never get there. Boohoo...

So, you're telling me that the thing occupying 70% of Anna's torso is actually a giant dragonfly? Wow...THAT would explain all the motion in there... :-)

Btw, I have a comparable reading list...but unfortunately, it's all "leisure" reading, so I don't know if I'll ever get around to it. Seems like I rarely get around to reading anything that doesn't have immediate import on some geopolitical or religious question...I'm turning into my dad, and I'm not even 26...yikes...

On a final note, we're stealing your pumpkin soup recipe for a massive documentary-viewing party we're hosting for 13 of our family and friends in our tiny apartment...I hope it's as easy to make as it sounds on the website! Btw, the doc. is called "Promises" -- you can get it through Blockbuster Online, and the imdb info is here.